Adoption vs. Abortion vs. Parenting

When you are faced with making a decision about your pregnancy, it is important to be informed with accurate information. 

 

Just as there are many choices for you, there are many similiarities and differences between your options of Adoption, Abortion, and Parenting a child.

 

 

Similarities

Adoption

     Abortion
You can pursue earlier goals     You can pursue earlier goals
       
You can live independently     You can live independently
       
You will not have to parent prematurely     You will not have to parent prematurely
       

You will avoid being forced into a hasty

marriage or relationship

    

You will avoid being forced into a hasty

marriage or relationship
       

If you are a teenager, you can resume

your youthful lifestyle

    

If you are a teenager, you can resume

your youthful lifestyle
 

Differences

Adoption     Abortion
Your pregnancy ends with giving life     Your pregnancy ends with death
       
You can feel good about your choices     You may feel guilt and shame about your choice
       
You will remember giving birth     You will remember ending a life
       

You will have time to plan for you

and your baby's future

     Abortion is final; you cannot change your decision
       
You can hold, name and love your baby     You will never know or treasure your baby
       

You can have continued contact with

your baby

     You will miss the opportunity to see your child develop
       

Cost Differences

Adoption There is no cost to you if you choose adoption. In fact, pregnancy related expenses are paid for by the adoptive family, which often includes medical care and living expenses. Examples may include: rent, utilities, maternity clothing, food, prenatal vitamins any other medical expenses not covered by your insurance or Medicaid. You will be able to speak with your adoption specialist about your specific needs.
   
Abortion Depending on how far along you are, the cost will range from $500-$2000 to get an abortion. There may also be additional charges for an ultrasound, morning after pill, birth control and treatment if an infection should occur.
   
Parenting

Parenting is the most expensive option. Total cost to parent a child ranges from $1,000-$2,000 monthly. This estimate may include but is not limited to: diapers, baby bottles, formula, clothing, car seat, day care, first aid supplies, blankets, crib or basinet, and hygiene products. To raise a child, a parent must also budget for shelter, food, transportation, and utilities.

 

When all of these expenses are added up, it will cost approximately $12000-$24000 per year to raise a child. This estimate does not include education and other items that children require as they grow up.