Chances are you never thought you would experience an unplanned pregnancy, and you may feel overwhelmed at times.  You're not sure yet what decision you should make about your baby; sometimes one path seems right, but at other times you're not so sure.  As you decide what course to follow, consider the following:

1. Make sure you have a good support system.

If you are close to your family, they will be a resource to you as you make important decisions.  You may also find it helpful to talk with a religious leader.

2. What does your child deserve?

Ask yourself what kind of situation would best help your baby live a happy, healthy life.  Which decision would most likely help your child have the life you envision for him or her?

3. Who will benefit the most from your decision; you or your baby?

Write down your different options.  Then, under each option, list the reasons why that would be a good decision.  When you're done, review the entire list.  How many statements focus on "I" or "me," and how many focus on your baby?  Of all the options, which would seem to benefit your child the most?

4. Know that any decision will be difficult.

If you choose abortion, you may experience feelings of remorse and guilt.  If you choose an adoption plan, you will go through a grieving process.  No decision is "the easy way out".

There is hope.  After talking with counselors at The Adoption Authority, many women have felt confident and peaceful about their decisions.  The assistance provided by qualified staff at The Adoption Authority is free and confidential.  We specialize in assisting birth mothers in rural communities.